FREEDOM PRINCIPLE 3:

THE VALUE OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE



Sometimes the enemy demotivates us by attacking our awareness of God's unconditional love.  We think we have to get free to be really loved.  This yanks us back to a works mentality.  Feelings of guilt (usually inflamed by “the accuser of the brethren” [Revelation 12:11]) deflate our awareness of God's compassion for us.



Yet God does love you!  Consider these quotations from the Word:  “The LORD has appeared of old to me, saying: 'Yes, I have loved you with an everlasting love; Therefore with lovingkindness I have drawn you.'“ (Jeremiah 31:3); “He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things?  Who shall separate us from the love of Christ?  Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?  Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us.  For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 8:32, 33, 35, 37-39).

Why is this appreciation of God's love for you so strategic to living free?  We are made in God's image; we are designed as relational beings.  Divine love calls forth from us a response of grateful love.  As Paul wrote in Romans 2:4, “Do you despise the riches of His goodness, forbearance, and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?”



The love of God is illustrated in the joyful, eager, loving response of the father in the parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15).  You recall how the son got fed up with wishing for pig's food.  He logically preferred servanthood in his father's house to servanthood in the world.  This led him back home.  He didn't have to settle for servanthood; the father lavished him with the gracious blessing of family status (cf. Ephesians 1:3; 1 John 3:1,2).  When we focus on the limitless ocean of God's love for us, it gives new motivation to chose His best for our lives.

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FREEDOM PRINCIPLE 4:

A BALANCED VIEW OF YOURSELF (as a person)



Although often exaggerated and misunderstood, I suggest that we need to place value on ourselves as well.  The familiar “second greatest commandment” reads, "You shall love your neighbor as yourself" (Matthew 22:39). Granted, love of ourselves is not an explicit command; it is an assumed measurement.

But consider this: if you think you are worthless, how can you adequately respond to the basic motivations of life—fear of personal loss and desire for personal gain?  Take salvation, for example.  The appeal to be reconciled to God assumes that the sinner cares enough about himself to desire avoidance from hell (fear of loss) and prefer the eternal benefits of heaven (desire for gain).  Likewise, you have to care enough about yourself as a person to think your life's potential really matters; it REALLY IS a tragic loss if you stay stuck in a rut.  It REALLY DOES matter that you gain freedom, because there are positive benefits to you, the Lords' kingdom, and others in your life.  As the Scripture says, “For none of us lives to himself, and no one dies to himself.  For if we live, we live to the Lord; and if we die, we die to the Lord. Therefore, whether we live or die, we are the Lord's” (Romans 14:7,8).

If you rationalize your lack of experienced freedom with a “who cares? - I don't deserve better” attitude, then you are being duped by the Enemy.  Your Savior says, “Are not two sparrows sold for a copper coin?  And not one of them falls to the ground apart from your Father's will. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Do not fear therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows” (Matthew 10:29-31).

We may not FEEL worthy of such love because it is undeserved.  God loves us by His sovereign GRACE.  Because He cared enough about us to create us and redeem us through the infinite value of the blood of His Son, we must value ourselves as well (1 Peter 1:18.19).  Your creation and redemption is God's gift to you; what you allow God to do with your life is your gift to Him.

As we appropriate the freedom that is ours WE DO OURSELVES A HUGE FAVOR!  “Delight yourself also in the LORD, And He shall give you the desires of your heart”; “For the LORD God is a sun and shield; The LORD will give grace and glory; No good thing will He withhold From those who walk uprightly” (Psalm 37:4; 84:11).

Forget about the TV hype, “Who wants to be a millionaire?”  A better offer is, “Who wants God's best for their life?”  That isn't a matter of chance—it is a matter of faith and freedom.



In the journey to freedom from addiction, we have looked at the adequacy of knowing Christ as our LIFE.  Since He is the true Vine, and we, as believers, are the branches, we can look to Him for the strength and virtue that is necessary for all of life's demands—including freedom from a stubborn habit (John 15:5).  We have also seen the strategic value of other biblical principles in the process of appropriating God's power for specific habitual struggles.